It's just you and it...
“You have to have something that you don’t ask anybody else about. I’ve always been aware of that with painting. No one else can really help you, or say whether it’s good or bad. It’s just you and it, and that’s great. You can handle everything else in your life much more easily, because you have that place where you are on your own.”
— Lois Dodd
Recently I’ve had opportunities to meet and paint outdoors with other painters who I admire immensely. I did not seek out these opportunities. They came to me by some mysterious working of the cosmos (and social media). These few other painters and I connect on a unique dimension.
This is new for me. Typcially, the intrinsic solitary nature of painting is one of the reasons I paint. I love the alone-ness of painting. But there is a simultaneous strong yearning to connect with other painters, and there is a lot to be gained, through osmosis, simply by being in the same vicinity and painting with other like-minded folks for a few hours.
Still, in the end, as dear Lois asserts, the painting itself is always and forever an utterly solitary pursuit. And I do agree, this is great.